Khutba Points

I being a mom of three girls and a granddaughter is saddened by the news of the recent senseless murder/ suicide. Why the masajids not doing Khutbas on “daruba ” and “qawamun” the role of Hadith degrading women as “fitna “or temptress why are we shoving these issues under the rug. Masajids are I’ll equipped, Imams are not trained uneducated who only advise “sabar” a”sacrifice “and endurance. Women are marginalized in the masajids only the one who follow the men blindly or dressed in a certain way are allowed and made masajids exclusive clubs not welcoming for everyone. Domestic violence is so underreported and women are held responsible for all children’s and marital problems. This culture needs to change not bandaids when something bad happens.