The Quran
1. "We have enjoined on man kindness to his parents; in pain did his mother bear him, and in pain did she give him birth" (46:15).
2. "Thy Lord hath decreed that ye worship none but Him, and that ye be kind to parents. Whether one or both of them attain old age in thy life, say not to them a word of contempt, nor repel them, but address them in terms of honor. And out of kindness, lower to them the wing of humility, and say: ‘My Lord! bestow on them Thy Mercy even as they cherished me in childhood' "(17:23-24).
3. "We have enjoined on man and woman kindness to parents; but if they (either of them) strive (to force) thee to join with Me anything of which thou hast no knowledge, obey them not'" (29:8).
4. "We have enjoined on man and woman (to be good) to his/her parents; show gratitude to Me and to thy parents; to Me is (thy final) Goal. If they (parents) strive to make thee join in worship with Me things of which thou hast no knowledge, obey them not; yet bear them company in this life with justice (and consideration) and follow the way of those who turn to Me (in love)" (31:14-15).
The Hadith
1. The Prophet Muhammad said, may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him: Your Heaven lies under the feet of your mother (Ahmad, Nasai).
2. A man came to the Prophet and said, ‘O Messenger of God! Who among the people is the most worthy of my good companionship? The Prophet said: Your mother. The man said, ‘Then who?' The Prophet said: Then your mother. The man further asked, ‘Then who?' The Prophet said: Then your mother. The man asked again, ‘Then who?' The Prophet said: Then your father. (Bukhari, Muslim).
3. Abu Usaid Saidi said: We were once sitting with Rasulullah when a man from the tribe of Salmah came and said to him: O Messenger of Allah! do my parents have rights over me even after they have died? And Rasulullah said: Yes. You must pray to Allah to bless them with His Forgiveness and Mercy, fulfill the promises they made to anyone, and respect their relations and their friends (Abu Dawud and Ibn Majah).
4. Abdullah ibn Amr related that the Messenger of Allah said: The major sins are to believe that Allah has partners, to disobey one's parents, to commit murder, and to bear false witness (Bukhari, Muslim).
5. It is narrated by Asma bint Abu Bakr that during the treaty of Hudaibiyah, her mother, who was then pagan, came to see her from Makkah. Asma informed the Messenger of Allah of her arrival and also that she needed help. He said: Be good to your mother (Bukhari, Muslim).
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Mmy mother
My mother is died
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Fiance
I am in 2 to 3 years relationship and with no issues nt until few months ago when something between us and it was my fault and I apologize to him immediately and we settled only for him to go report me to my parents and his parents too and they had to talk to us where I understood my mistake and still apologized since the he never call nor text and even if I do he ignored bt the mom still kept on telling me to be patient everything will get settled since the word was coming from his mom I felt relieved at least he won’t disrespect her nw it’s 4months already he did make any changes and I don’t want to disrespect the mom by ignoring her too I don’t know what to do please help
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Mother hatred
Salam alaikum,my younger brother married to a celestial lady who always see visions to my mum and because of the visions she see for my mum on my wife and me myself have make me and my mother breakup what can I do?
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My father hates me even cursed me preferring my mother over him
Hell or janna
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Inresponse to above-mentioned comments by different children
The one thing is common and that is you all are talking about your aged or aging mothers. Remember one thing. We did unbearable things to them when we were obstinate, irritative, rude and misbahaving kids and they still loved us beyond any limits. why? Because children are not sensible, mature and commit certain horrible things unknowingly. Same is the case with the parents in their oldage. They are like children, without much sense and responsibility. So, please try to understand.
Allah will reward you and He knows each and everything
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Our mothers' patience
Thank you for your wise words Muttahir and l hope all the above commenters find peace with their mothers. I was surprised to learn being bad to your parents was a major sin, l regret so much now they are both gone. You'll see how evil the world is when your parents are no longer there to shield you.
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RME
What is the continuous of A man came to
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A mothers behavior
My boyfriend and I have been together 5 years, I am catholic faith and he is Muslim. We have gotten along amazing until his mom came in the relationship the 5tb year. I found out she tortures her son mentally and verbally abusing him with hurtful threats. She manipulates the son every way possible such threats to leave him and she can live in the street. I did nothing but love him . He wants to marry me. She refuse at all cost to explain why she hates me. To the point she choose to toruture him daily with threats and telling him “ He is not good enough for me that I deserve better than him .
is this behavior welcome?
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Muslim mom
It is a very com.on act fir most moms to act and always try to make their sons feel so shame and motivation level high and just an half hour visit or chat they can brain wash the son like ceazy,they will make the son feel so bad about him ignoring his mom,I raised you,in our culture you gave made the biggest mistake,I was the one brought you to this world and now you want to marry a none Muslim girl.we all have to kill ourselves we must leave this city.and now this is what I get in return,if I don't see you no more I may have a heart attack may Allah bless you and crying showing off and playing game. So this is what we all dealing with.so I should say welcome to afghan culture or just say good ye didn't work who is next? That's my way of explaining a typically afghany mom.
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It’s is Haram to have a bf/gf
It’s is Haram to have a bf/gf in Islam ,it is not permissiblle.
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